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About my innocence

After thinking about it, I must be a really innocent person, ain't I? I mean, like I don't smoke, drink, swear or look at porn like many people around my age do. Okay, well, swear words have slipped out of my mouth on a few occasions, but I mean, I'm not a person who swears regularly. I used to swear online a little bit sometimes too, but I stopped that. I really hate how people think that if you don't smoke, drink, swear or look at porn, you're not cool or whatever. I also hate how people think that drinking is required at parties and stuff.

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    Stem Cell since Aug 2004 | Dec 19, 08
    It's society that makes up these 'norms', and depending upon where you live they could be different. Drinking and smoking, swearing and looking at porn isn't 'cool' - a lot of people don't do any of them. But, it is a way to experience a different side of life while your a young person. I used to do drugs, set off home-made pipe bombs, drink, smoke a little, and I still look up tons of porn - yet I come from a middle class family and i've set myself straight after my experimentation years. I'm glad I indulged in life's not-so-innocent side. It was fun while it lasted. But as I grow older, i have new responsibilities and can't do that stuff anymore.

    Drugs, i don't want to do. I don't like cigarettes. I don't drink much. I'll go to a party and play beer pong, and socialize - but not much drinking. I haven't been drunk in over a year. I look up porn a lot, but that's just because i'm horny as hell.

    You have to find out for yourself what 'being cool' really means. People indulge in those sins for experimentation, and I must say - it's fun. Just don't make it a permanent way of life.

    Hint - don't want to be pressured to drink? Go to the party, grab a beer, drink half of it (or pour it out-party foul!! haha), and walk around and talk. Once they see the beer in your hand, you'll be good to go. Hopefully, eh.

    And swearing isn't so bad, it's just used to emphasize what your trying to say. Watch Two for the Money with AL Pacino and you'll understand what I mean when he walks into the betters annonymous group and makes his speech. haha. Just don't do it to the point where it makes you look like a *bleep*ing moron.
    Last edited by Stem Cell :: Dec 19, 08
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      Kokoro since Jan 2004 | Dec 21, 08
      Oh yeah, I forgot to reply to this. Well, there's surely much better ways to emphasize than swearing. Also, just about any swear word could easily be substituted for another word.
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        chautemoc since Mar 2008 | Dec 23, 08
        Preference/subjectivity -- what swear words mean to you don't mean the same to everyone else, and therefore do not warrant censorship or substitution (to others).
        Last edited by chautemoc :: Dec 23, 08
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    Spiritual since Apr 2007 | Dec 19, 08


        I am a really innocent person to. I don`t drink, swear, smoke, and I am not a pervert either which many people are attracted too! It`s a great thing to be all of that ^^!


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      Harvest Moon girl since Feb 2004 | Dec 19, 08
      You're also like...12, aren't you?

      Kokoro, I don't smoke and don't ever plan on doing it. I also never drink excessively and barely even do it at all actually. Haha, Stem, that's exactly what I do when I'm at a party. I used to fill it up with water just so I'd have something to drink when the parties become extremely hot due to the number of people.

      Can't say the same about swearing though. I'm one of those people who firmly believe in the power of an aptly used swear.
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      Vermillion since Jan 2006 | Dec 19, 08
      Looking at porn doesn't make you a pervert. Stem Cell hit right in the nail. Saying that looking at porn makes you a pervert is one of those "norms".
      People that say that looking at porn makes you a pervert have no idea or are close to what the word "pervert" means.

      Pervert: A person whose behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior. (Online Dictionary).

      Looking at porn is acceptable, while touching someone's organs without constent and annoying them with that is not. Masturbating is acceptable, while rape is not. There really has to be some sort of clarification when it comes to the word "pervert". Masturbating or looking at porn makes you a pervert? Hell no. If you do sex related stuff when the other person does not want or you don't have the consent, then THAT makes you a pervert.

      Now, that being said, I do not smoke, the max I drink is half a little of ron when I am in family, but that has to be when a very important event happens (that is, my body is going to be out of Alcohol for two years until I graduate). Drink with my friends? I have no idea what they dare put in the substance, so I will stay away of that one.


      Last edited by Vermillion :: Dec 19, 08
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        chautemoc since Mar 2008 | Dec 23, 08
        Well, if you dont trust your friends to not *bleep* you up with alcohol, you shouldnt be drinking with them anyway, I say..
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    Kokoro since Jan 2004 | Dec 20, 08
    Well, it's not because I think looking at porn makes me a pervert, but because I don't like looking at genitals and stuff. I don't care how acceptable it is, I still won't look at it.
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      chautemoc since Mar 2008 | Dec 23, 08
      I think for some the viewing of sexual organs is found to be a pleasurable activity only once a physical manifestation of sexual pleasure occurs.
      Last edited by chautemoc :: Dec 23, 08
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    skrawberry footrot since Aug 2009 | Oct 19, 09
    YEAH *bleep* LOOKING AT PORN, LETS JERK IT TO POSTS !
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